The current world calls for an extrovert personality. There is a high need to socialise be it the space of your work or education. Money and health seems not to pay off if one does not have a group of friends. It is vital to have social skills in order to maintain a status among the group of people around us. But it’s a nightmare for those who don’t socialise much and are more of introvert by nature. It is never their fault as the notion is embedded deep in them and they cannot help it out. Introverts might not like to get social,but they hate being lonely at the same time. But they can indeed work upon a few tips to socialise well which might be beneficial for them in the long run of life:
Carefully Observe and analyse
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One must not simply jump at a simple handshake or a formal greeting. But indeed, close and speculative observation(which introverts excel at) would help open up more easily as you already have had your share of study about the person.
Enhance your positive side
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Generally reserved personalities have a notion of inferiority complex about themselves due to which they scare themselves off from opening in front of others. Take your time and make a note of your hidden talents which one might cast off to the outer world.
Make the first move
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Many times we refrain ourselves from beginning a conversation expecting the same from the other party. Not always, but yes at certain times when it is favourable, do try to make your move initiating with a formal conversation and then proceeding to the informal one, if you are comfortable.
Don’t act cool, act Friendly
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Imposing oneself to be someone as fake can be a real-turnoff in the tread to social life. Utilise more of a friendly and casual attitude to help you appear natural and easy-going.
Lookout for your comfort-zone
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Do go for an interaction with a group/inidivdual which shares equivalent mental state as yours to ease off the pressure. Starting off with hard-party- goers of the sort of people would end up you in disappointment as they have been differently wired than you.
Don’t trademark rejection
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Not everyone hits off with everyone. The same rule for all. Do not personalise it and move forward even when faced with some rejections. Prioritise your attitude and watch how the world approaches you.
Let your social circle form by itself
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Do not over-emphasise the need and let the flow go on. You make one friend and just wait for the group to form by itself. Just enjoy the magic of socialising. Simply explore new friendships and connect them with the existing ones.
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